to do or not to do

every body must have gone through this process...

to do or not to do?
to do this or to do that?
which one is better?
what is the pros and cons?

of making choices..

for me it is really a dilemma.. i am always afraid to make choices.. it comes together with risk.. if you are comfortable with what you have now, why you want to change? but when there is an opportunity for you to change for the 'better', maybe you should change... but how do you know that it is better? you don't know until you take that choice.. maybe it is better for somebody else but not for you.. when you do and you discover that it is actually not 'better' then it is already too late..

yes... i think i am not a risk taker...

what is the biggest decision making that i have done so far? i don't recall one.. duh.. i always go with the flow.. is it good or is it bad?? does that make myself a coward? huhu.. am i a person with no principle? or maybe everything that has been arranged for me is always within my principle.. that is why everything looks smooth for me.. well, i should thanks Allah for that.. Alhamdulillah...

anyway, it is always the best to seek guidance from Allah.. Istikharah...

To ayah, if this is better for you and for us, pray that Allah will make the way smooth and easy for you... if it is not, then pray that Allah will show us the right way.. Ameen...

My prayer is always with you...